I picked coral as the color for our living room. Coral. What was I thinking?
[Disclaimer – if you have a coral living room, please do not take offense – I am sure it is stunning. It is just not stunning for me, BUT it will be for our guest room ;)]
We have been in our house for almost 2 months now & I am already preparing to re-decorate the living room. Why? Well, in my rush to build a home and “nest” – I went straight to Target and bought curtains, throw pillows etc. and excitedly started to decorate. Only problem with that was, with my whirlwind of excitement to hang curtains and prove myself to be a good, homely wife – I made decisions that I don’t even like. And by “don’t even like” I mean that whenever I truly survey my living room, I wince.
I was hasty, and my hastiness landed me here. Here = somewhere I find myself discontent, unhappy and unsatisfied.
But God, my good good Father, took this and taught me a lesson greater than “how not to fail at interior design” – He taught me how to wait.
So often in life, we are so quick to make decisions. Sometimes because we dislike so much having to even make them, we tend to choose the option that seems the simplest. Or sometimes, we make them in the heat of the moment, instead of considering all the factors as well as what God’s heart is towards the situation.
“Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes” (Proverbs 19:2 NLT)
What is haste? The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines it as: “speed of motion or action : quickness or eagerness that can result in mistakes”. So many times in my own life I have been hasty and it has landed me in regrettable positions. I was so quick to react, that I hadn’t even considered all the factors.
I was impulsive instead of wise.
What it really comes down to, is having the patience to stop – seek God – and then with a peace in our heart, make the next move. Is prayer our number 1 priority when we are faced with a certain decision, situation or circumstance? Do we seek what God says about something before taking part in it? Do we have peace in our hearts about a decision before we decide? Or, do we let pressure decide for us and position us somewhere that we don’t want to be?
I am learning that time is not wasted when it is spent waiting on God. I believe that patience produces a strengthened heart (Psalm 27:14)
Now I know my living room example may seem silly – but for me it was a crossroads in my walk with God where I finally had to make the choice to stop acting impulsively in my life, and rely on His leadings. Now you may be thinking, “Why would she consult God on decorating her home?” To be honest, I believe we can and should consult Him on anything and everything – the Holy Spirit delights in the little details [plus, He designed the earth and all the beauty within it, so I’m pretty sure that qualifies Him as a way better decorator than me]. I can’t even tell you how many times I have been shopping and have asked the Holy Spirit whether or not I should purchase something, and when I felt a “no” – have walked out that store and either found something better or something cheaper (can I hear a hallelujah?).
“Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17 NLT)
Always and about everything. It is a key to success in our lives. We don’t have to live in a constant state of pressure to act and then regret when have. We can seek God for guidance and be sure about our decisions. I believe I can become so much more successful and productive in my life if I would just take the time to stop, consult the Lord and then respond. Sometimes it could take 5 seconds, and sometimes 5 days. But what I know for sure is that anything led by the Holy Spirit will prove best & most beneficial for me and for those around me.
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